Nice? F*ck Nice! I’m Sick of The Drama

Beginning To The End Of My Niceness
An update to an update on my journey of trying to be a good person. That’s what this post is about.
Wanna know where my phone is at the moment? Buried under a mound of pillows to stiffle the ring. Wanna know why? Because, I was nice to a [...]

Being Nice Is Screwing Up My Life!

This is another update to the SIL Post.
Y’all made me do some self-assessment thinking with your comments and encouragement to help crack-head, dillusional, grief stricken SIL.  I let myself be swayed by the image in my head of birds singing, butterflies landing on my shoulders, rainbows in a clear blue sky, and the voice of [...]

I Don’t Know How She Feels….Update

by UM/TPB

I’ll make this first part quick. Kinda like Cliff notes only BP Chick notes. Same thing. Except Cliff notes are about books that we were suppose to read in school. Much of the time, we needed those Cliff notes to pass our English class.  BP Chick notes are much the same but use language [...]

Hey Mom

Do you have a story?
Have you seen your child through, or are you experiencing some tough times? Good ones? Or has your mother done that for you? How about memories, good or bad?
Here is a place to tell about it, or to thank your mother.

Stephany is having a “Mother’s Day Safe Haven Month” on [...]

It was my birthday…. I could cry if I wanted to!

by the feline…..
The 14th of this month was my birthday… just last Friday… Know who forgot my birthday? My mother. ROFLMAO! She’s now officially forgotten most everyone in the family’s birthday. I believe the memory of every single person on this earth has been affected by the hormone’s in the chickens [...]

Waiting For The Phone To Ring….

The television is on. The washing machine is running. I’m on the computer. Just an ordinary evening except…..
I’m waiting. Waiting for the telephone to ring. Even though I expect it, I’m sure that the sound will startle me and I’ll jump.
When the call comes it will be to let me know that she’s dead. [...]

An Education In Incoherent Thoughts

This post is for those of us who will “get it”. And, it’s also for anyone who has a close relationship with a BP person.
First….be aware that we look like you, shop like you, go to church like you, have jobs like you, but frankly, there are plenty of times that we do NOT [...]

On Not Being Around….

by um/tpb
Sorry, my BP Chick homies, about not being around lately.
Life , lately, has resembled a low-budget movie playing in fast forward. Not a minute to myself except when I was puking over the side of the bed due to a virus or something.
Don’t have time to make a long story [...]

She Makes Me Feel Like Crap….

by UM
I just don’t get it. Really, I don’t. Once again, I am writing about my daughter…..the one who is anorexic and buliemic.
I had not been able to get her on the phone since last Sunday. Left messages. Emailed her. Went by her house and she wasn’t home.
Today, I get this in an email from [...]

FF Friends….Remember the Infamous Boar Hunt?

Well…..look at this. This ugly, horrid thing is going to be hanging in my house. TG it’s in husband’s office.
I swear, my house is starting to resemble a Bad Dreams Museum! But, you know what they say, “If life hands you lemons, make lemonade.” I will be dressing this ugly boar head up for [...]